Where to even begin. How about right here, right now? I am currently in my bedroom, sitting on my bed, by myself. This is more or less the same exact spot I’ve been for the past 48 hours, only with posture fluctuations. My kids are all tucked in, two of them fell immediately asleep after a day I know little about. Myles is downstairs, maybe cleaning up after the day, maybe starting a movie to watch as he relaxes before tucking himself in on the couch for the night. We have five more days that will most likely (and honestly, hopefully) continue to cycle like this.
Back in March, as everyone knows, things shut down and ended for a bit. For some people, not much changed as a virus webbed around the world, and for others, everything changed. I suppose my family falls somewhere in the middle of that spectrum. My husband remained employed, we remained healthy. We were inconvenienced to do school from home, drastically minimize social contact and stick around the house for a good long time. We had to cancel visits with two sets of relatives, birthday parties and normal gatherings. Meeting together and worshiping with our church congregation leaves a gap in our lives and every single public building we’ve entered has only been done with a mask on. Inconvenient, for sure, but I feel confident and secure in knowing that we’ve done our best. Despite our community’s overall negative vibe regarding anything covid related, my family has been very careful.
And yet, I got a phone call on Saturday confirming that the COVID-19 test I had taken the day before was positive. My jaw about hit the floor. I’ve done everything right! I only took the test so that I could in good conscience send all the kids to school this Tuesday. It was such an impossible decision and I was finally feeling peace about it, but scratch those plans, they have to stay home longer. The hospital gave me general instructions and told me to expect a phone call from the state health department.
We are continuing to follow all the guidelines given to us, even though it is hard. I am isolating in my bedroom, basically only going out to nurse Luci before bed while wearing a mask. I can hear my kids doing all their normal stuff- playing or fighting all day, but am resisting joining their fun or interrupting arguments. I hear Myles doing his best with them and want to offer backup. I’m a stay at home mom so I know what it’s like to want that backup with our four beloved children. We are all staying home for the recommended amount of time and my kids are SAD. They all love their teachers and they’ve been looking forward to seeing their friends for months, but this has pulled the rug out from under them. Molli is particularly distraught about it. I’m sure it’s a hard balance between being disappointed for all she’s missing out on, while also being concerned for my health. After all, our lives have revolved around protecting our family from this for so long and now this big thing is in our faces.
As for me, I’m physically feeling alright. I’ve had a headache most of the time, which is annoying but not miserable. I had very specific, substantial aches early on but thankfully that seems to be over and an occasional low grade fever. My sense of smell and taste left me yesterday. It’s definitely one of those things that I’ve never taken much time to appreciate until now. Myles made me a black americano this morning that tasted like hot water. Then a little bit later, a smoothie that tasted like cold. To top it all off, I had a handful of peanuts that were crunchy. I sure appreciate temperatures and texture in a different way now! I have a peppermint essential oil by my bed that was initially to help with the headache but has since become my standard smell test and even that little bottle smells completely neutral. Brushing my teeth? Neutral foam. It’s weird.
There was an incident with Luci today that had me thankful for my inability to smell. I’ll spare you the details, and the pictures, but just know that every single surface, blanket, and square foot of carpet in her room had to be thoroughly cleaned. It was not pretty.
I digress. Yes, I am sick. Yes, I’m doing alright. I’m positive my kids are going to eat a lot more frozen, boxed and easy foods than normal. But they are taking their vitamins. And so am I. I have anxiety about the whole thing but I am not terrified. I am taking it easy, resting and paying attention. I’m keeping positive. This whole thing is really unfortunate, but I’m trying to view it as a change of pace. I’m filling my normally rare alone time. I miss my family, but I want to come out of this being able to truthfully say that I’ve done my very best to love them by protecting them.
So for now, pray for our wellness and for our attitudes.